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emm Lim, James Leong CF, Alva, Tiong Boon, Shane Kwek, Alvin Wang, Stacey Thoi, Choon Fah, Shannaz, Chih Chien, Gerald Lee, Theeban, Patrick Goh, Jeff Tan, Rossana Chen, Alex Ang, Alex Chua, Lee Kin Mun, Chee Hoe, Shamsudin, Kalai, Irene Low, Wilson Foo, Andrew Chan, Charles Yuen, Ying Yan, Wai Keong Couldn t have done it without you guys! To all my principals, teachers & lecturers from Ping Yi secondary school, Victoria Junior College and The National University of Singapore who have played a tremendous part in shaping the person I am today, especially to Prof. Wee Chow Hou, Mrs. Lee Phui Mun, Mrs. Ng Gek Tiang, Dr. Kulwant Singh & Dr. May Lwin. To my mentors and trainers who have helped me discover the true power within myself. To my first mentor, Ernest Wong who taught me who I am. To Dr. Tad James, Dr. Richard Bandler, John LaValle, Tony Buzan, Brad Sugars and Anthony Robbins who helped me master NLP & the science of accelerated personal change. To all the members of the Young Entrepreneurs Organization (Singapore Chapter) for tremendous fellowship and support. Especially to Elim ChewR, Ricky Chew, Ong Tze Boon, Jeff Goh, Parvindar Singh, Jocelyn Chng, Goh Bock Seng, Douglas Foo, Michael Moey, Sam Chia, Seah LC, William Wong and Roger Khoo. To my old friends, Dr. Dennis Wee, Tommie Goh, Gay Chee Cheong, Dr. Tony Tan & Mrs. Mary Tan, Steve Boyley, Melvyn Koh, Dave Rogers, David Ong, Manoj Sharma, Morris Allen, Jim Atchinson, Kenneth Lyen, Gary Tan, Kenneth Wong, Aaron Ang & Clemen Chiang. To the management and staff of AIA, John Hancock, Prudential, Great Eastern Life, Lux Asia, Ngee Ann Polytechnic, NUS, NTU, Youth Challenge, Marshall Cavendish, Pearsons & Dennis Wee Realty for your invaluable support. Specially to Goh Nai Kiat & David Lim for all your support & belief in the Patterns of Excellence program. ThanRks to the staff of Event Gurus especially my partner Zachary Low, colleagues Philip Lim, Kevin Lim, Grace Neo & Veronica Tan for pulling off the greatest events, especially Empower Your Life, Design Your Destiny 2003 . And to the staff of Adcom. Special thanks to Serene Quek, Cedric De Souza, Dolly Lee, Ivy Lim, Ivy Ang, Conor O Sullivan & Afdoli Rahmat.
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To my close friends, thanks for sharing the special connection, you are aPll fantastic: Melvyn Koh, Manoj Sharma, Dr. Beh Chee Yang, James Leong Chan Foo, Apelles Poh, Ian Poh, Yiow Chye Leong, Lillian Lim, Chris Ng Wai Chung, Luke Diep, Ronald Tan and Randy Tan, Jerry Low, Sng Yih and Lorraine Sim, Dr. Edgar Tham, Kae Fong, Willie Lian, Dr. Joel Lee, Julia Lim, Lydia Low, Rajesh Pillai, Adrian Sim, Samie Tan, Tracy Ong and Lynn Tan. To the many Toastmasters who have contributed to my success in more ways than one. You ve been there to banter with me and provide me with opportunities and insights to succeed in public speaking. Special thanksP to Clifford and Frances Ess, Jovin Hurry, Jeremy Eng, Ng Seng Chuan, Dayal Khemlani, Michael Rodrigues, Dave Rogers, John Sih, Ler Wee Meng, Richard Sng, Irene Wong, Lillian Lau, Gea Ban Peng, Ng Kwan Kiat, members of the Brilliant Advanced Toastmasters Club, SRC Toastmasters Club, Queenstown Toastmasters Club, Tanglin Community Toastmasters Club, Fort Canning Toastmasters Club, NUS, NTU and NUS Alumni Toastmasters Clubs, Skymedia Toastmasters Club, SIA Toastmasters Club, and all those whom I have had the good fortune to compete against in speech competitions. Finally, to those who started it all. My gratitude goes out to Dr. Richard Bandler, my teacher and a real kick ass presenter. I promise I will be more competent! Also, John and Kathleen LaValle, for your dynamism and care for us during our training. To John Grinder and Robert Dilts for having the courage and capacity to start NLP with Richard. BL
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